“If we listen
to our self-love, we shall estimate our lot less by what it is, than by what it
is not; shall dwell on its hindrances, and be blind to its possibilities; and,
comparing it only with imaginary lives, shall indulge in flattering dreams of
what we should do, if we had but power; and give, if we had but wealth; and be,
if we had no temptations. We shall be forever querulously pleading our
difficulties and privations as excuses for our unloving temper and unfruitful
life; and fancying ourselves injured beings, virtually frowning at the dear
Providence that loves us, and chafing with a self-torture which invites no
pity. If we yield ourselves unto God, and sincerely accept our lot as assigned
by Him, we shall count up its contents, and disregard its omissions; and be it
as feeble as a cripple’s, and as narrow as a child’s, shall find in it resources
of good surpassing our best economy, and sacred claims that may keep awake our
highest will.”
J. Martineau (Daily
Strength for Daily Needs p. 176)