Dear
Single Ladies – From a Newlywed
Dearest
Sisters,
I
wrote to some of you a little while ago – three and a half weeks
after my wedding day! Now, a month and a half into married life, my
feelings are the same – or perhaps even more intensified! Yes, I'm
very in love! But that's not the big thing I wanted to share with
you. I actually wanted to say –
BEING SINGLE IS AWESOME!
I
love being married – seriously, don't get me wrong! But just as
seriously, my hubby and I keep planning things and then thinking,
'You know what? We need more good Christian singles to help us
fulfill this plan!'
We
actually really need you. I love being a woman and thinking about
homemaking and babies and all that stuff, but honestly, God is still
so much more exciting than anything to do with marriage. I
wish I had used my single time ever more effectively – and this is
me talking – a motivated young woman married to a highly flexible,
godly, pull-out-all-stops-to-get-it-done kind of guy. Sure, the
world and the church needs married believers. But oh boy, we need
you singles too! Please, dear single ladies, don't be distracted
from our great calling by the idea of getting married. It's awesome!
But bombers weren't the only aircraft to fight a war. We need you
free-flying Spitfires as well.
So
single ladies – please. Help us. Motivate us. Challenge us.
Make sure we don't sink into lovey-dovey hermitage with our
beloveds, or get distracted from the Greates Love by the love we
have. Ask us questions – there really is a king of mind-gift you
received in marriage, and we'd love to share our stories for your
benefit! Keep us on our toes. Pray for us. Work with us!
And
Christ will return. We will all be together. Matrimony will be but
a memory, but love will be real and together we will rejoice in
unending bliss, praising our Father in Heaven!
Blessings
from your sister,
Georgia
As a newlywed coming up on my three month anniversary, I have to heartily concur!!! Being single was awesome! Being married is awesome! And neither one is more awesome than the other. I'm SOOO grateful for my 33 single years and want to add my encouragement to all the single ladies out there as to how much you ARE NEEDED in the church. In life. In my life! I love my single friends and don't know what I'd do without them. Their marital status has nothing to do with their value as people, as daughters of the King! If you're single, be gloriously single and revel in it! If you're married be gloriously married and revel in it! It's all wonderful.
ReplyDeleteJana
Such a blessing Jana! It IS encouraging to hear this feedback from you newly-weds! Thanks!
DeleteThanks Jana! I am realising more and more lately, how many single ladies need to hear this from us. I think it's an honour to speak this to them from what many seem to see as 'the other side'.
DeleteBlessings, Georgia